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Is my body count normal?
Compare your number of sexual partners to the average.
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The median American adult has had 4–6 lifetime sexual partners. Men self-report a higher median (6.1) than women (4.2), though researchers believe social desirability bias inflates male counts and deflates female counts.
Lifetime sexual partners distribution (US, CDC NSFG)
- 0–1 partners: ~17% of adults
- 2–4 partners: ~28% of adults
- 5–9 partners: ~22% of adults
- 10–14 partners: ~13% of adults
- 15+ partners: ~20% of adults
How this has changed over time
- Baby Boomers report the highest average body count (11.7 for men)
- Gen Z is having fewer partners than Millennials did at the same age
- 28% of Gen Z men 18-24 report zero sexual partners (up from 18% in 2008)
- The global median across 59 countries is ~7 for men and ~4 for women
Sources: CDC National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG), NSSHB, General Social Survey, Durex Global Sex Survey.